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Red lips, tied hands – and you can almost feel how electrified the bedroom becomes from sexual arousal. By exploring ourselves, we frequently discover that what makes us horny are objects that are actually unrelated to sex, or our strong desire to dominate – or submit. It’s not as unusual as it might appear, and it’s not something we should be shy of. Sexual fetishes are quite frequent. According to sex therapists, more than 65% of women want to be dominated, 47% dream about dominating their partners and 52% would like to try bondage.
What are the most popular sexual fetishes?
A sexual fetish means that it’s necessary to a person to see, feel or touch a fetish object to reach orgasm.
- Feet
- High-heel shoes
- Leather or latex clothing
- Lingerie
- Piercing
- Coloured lips
- Braids or ponytails
- BDSM
What is BDSM?
There are three parts in the abbreviation “BDSM”:
- BD or Bondage and Discipline: One of the partners is constrained, e.g., in speaking, seeing or moving. A set of rules is introduced. If a partner breaks one of them, he or she is punished.
- DS or Dominance and Submission: This is more related to power, whereby one of the partners allows the other to fully control him or her physically and/or emotionally.
- SM or Sadism and Masochism: A sadist gets pleasure from causing pain, while a masochist gets pleasure from feeling pain.
There are many myths about BDSM. For instance, that it attracts only strange people, and you’ll easily identify them on the street. Or that if a partner is interested in BDSM then traditional sex is something they won’t get pleasure from. Or even that BDSM leads to an emotional trauma.
BD or Bondage and Discipline: One of the partners is constrained, e.g., in speaking, seeing or moving. A set of rules is introduced. If a partner breaks one of them, he or she is punished.
DS or Dominance and Submission: This is more related to power, whereby one of the partners allows the other to fully control him or her physically and/or emotionally.
SM or Sadism and Masochism: A sadist gets pleasure from causing pain, while a masochist gets pleasure from feeling pain.
In reality, domination trains the shy ones to become braver also in their normal life. By the way, if you feel that your sexual life has turned into a routine or you don’t have sex with your partner at all, some small steps into BDSM can actually bring your passion back to life. Of course, it’s not required to create a specially furnished room with everything necessary, including all the possible sex toys. Start experimenting slowly, discussing together what to try this time.
Why is January 18 a special day for people with sexual fetishes?
This year, January 18 is the International Fetish Day, which is celebrated since 2009. The goal of this day is to bring attention and make the society more informed about the different fetishes, as well as to support the fetish community across the world.
The members of the fetish community wear purple on this day.
The experts wish you to be open and ready to discuss your sexual fantasies with your partner and realize them thereafter – this will only fill your sexual life with new wonderful emotions.
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